“When you adopt the viewpoint that there is nothing that exists that is not a part of you, that there is no one who is not a part of you, that any judgment you make is a self judgment, that any criticism you level is a self-criticism, you will wisely extend to yourself an unconditional love that will be the light of your world.”
– Harry Palmer, “Avatar Materials”
- What role did you play in this situation?
- How can you look at this another way?
- What good can you find in this person?
- How can you see this situation as an opportunity?
- What perspective might this person have on this?
- Can you find your own contribution to this?
- What lesson is to be learned here?
- How can you stay true to yourself in this situation?
- How can you move forward?
- What are other ways to handle this?
- What can you control? What can you change?
- How would you respond if someone else suggested you were blaming or not taking responsibility?
- Do you want to change this situation or not?
- What can you do to help this situation?
- How do you want to show up in this situation?
- How does blame solve this situation?
- What are the consequences of doing nothing in this situation?
- How are you 100% responsible? How is the other 100% to blame?
- What does self-responsibility mean to you?
- If you accept the responsibility how would it show up in your life?